Welcome to Our 15 Weeks in Europe!

July 1, 2021

We’re glad you’re here, and we hope you enjoy the ride. I couldn’t be more excited!

I’m Jillian Coleman Wheeler, and my beloved companion in life and adventure is my husband, Dempsey.  I’m a writer and counselor, and Dempsey retired in 2018 from a career with the State of Texas. Until recently, our life has been full and very busy, raising our son and helping raise his sister’s three daughters, who came to live with us after their mom died.

These four youngest are all in their thirties now. We also have 10 grandchildren and a growing crop of great-grands. I have two children from my first marriage, both in their fifties, and I stay in touch with the foster children I helped raise. Family is the center of our lives.

I grew up living in cities and towns throughout the United States and Canada, and I got the travel bug early.  Dempsey and I have traveled a lot in North America, but up to now, we haven’t made it off our own continent.  Our plan was to travel beginning in 2017, the year I turned 70 and he was eligible to retire.

But as often happens, life had other plans for us, including his advanced cancer (he’s completely well now), a minor but stressful bout with cancer of my own, and at the end of 2018, a family tragedy with the death of our young adult granddaughter, Nicole. Then of course, 2020 and the Covid pandemic, which changed everything here and abroad.

All my life I have dreamed of traveling to every continent in the world, visiting all the countries that interest me. Now we’re doing it! We’re beginning with 15 weeks in Europe. We’re not rich, and there’s a lot we don’t know. We’ll be learning as we go, and sharing what we learn with you.

 

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Jillian Coleman Wheeler

Hello, and welcome. I’m Jillian Coleman Wheeler, Trauma Recovery Coach, speaker, consultant and writer. I work with individuals and organizations. I offer classes, and I also speak and write about personal development, spirituality, and health and success in life and work. For people suffering depression, I created the Reboot Your Bliss™ process.

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Our two primary considerations were expertise and price, in that order. As I wrote yesterday, average price for this treatment is $40,000 where we live in Texas. A woman we met at the clinic we finally chose told us one well-known dentist near where she lives in Colorado charges $70,000.

There are a couple of ways to approach searching for a dentist internationally. One is to research on your own, and the other is to make inquiries through some of the organizations that represent dentists all over the world. Dental Departures (headquartered in Singapore), Patients Beyond Borders (located in Chapel Hill, North Carolina) The International Association for Medical Assistance to Travellers, (IAMAT), and The Medical Tourism Association are just a few of the groups that provide information about dental care abroad. Some organizations make direct referrals in exchange for a commission from the clinics.

When we first began looking, we considered clinics in Eastern Europe, where we knew we wanted to travel. Croatia, the Czech Republic, Poland, Hungary and Turkey are frequent dental tourism destinations, as are Mexico, Thailand, Spain, Costa Rica, the Philippines, and Malaysia. However, as we spent four months in Europe last year, we decided to concentrate on North America.

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We considered a large clinic with an excellent reputation in San Jose, Costa Rica and a clinic located in Cancun, Mexico. However, when we spoke to them we realized they do not send patients home with attached temporary teeth. Instead, they provide dentures (we’d already rejected dentures as uncomfortable and difficult to retain in place) to wear until the implants achieve osteointegration (when the jaw bone grows around the implant).

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